Hidden Resentments of a Codependent

yingyangOur culture victimizes the codependent and villainizes the narcissist (counterdependent).  Two quick points.  In the victim role, the codependent doesn't work on their bug-a-boo and the narcissist simply isn't paying attention.  It's about rooting out where being anything but interdependent is harmful to any relationship.  

There is a lot at play in this interaction.  This video is me talking about the hidden resentment bottled up over time by the codependent.  

 

Codependency - Considering others feelings before ourselves
Interdependency - The balance of our feelings and the feelings of others
Counterdependency - Considering our feelings before others

 

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