Most people communicate by the default of what they learned along the way. This is exactly what makes communication difficult. If operating by default, people communicate through windows of their experience that have be muddied by painful or immature influences.
The moment we make a decision to become deliberate in how we communicate, we begin to squeegy our windows of perception.
Do you want to live in harmonious, productive and ever expanding relationships? If so, then becoming a great communicator is vital to exploring this way of experiencing life.
The first stage of communication is the need for control; or the expectation stage. In stage two, we develop the skills and awareness that allow us to live with expectancy; where our state of being directs our communication. In stage three or the expectasis stage, we be masters of communication, where flow and ease permeate our experiences.