Are our Companions Liberators or Saboteurs to Our Best Life?
We often choose people who have weathered a storm or two with us. At some point along our path we may choose to move to a better paradigm to live within. Perhaps it is moving from a expectation (control) to expectancy (magic) experience. Major shifts in how we experience the world happen most in how we deal with life when it turns sideways.
ie: What if our best friend’s default is to show up in a down period with a bottle of alcohol (to escape) and supports us through all our patterns of limited thought while we are in an emotional state? Will we have shifted paradigms or reinforced the same ol? This isn’t a post about getting rid of friends, it’s about how much authority we give people when we are in a limited perspective state.